How Mediation Can Help Make the Divorce Process Less Stressful

There’s nothing more stressful than a divorce, especially when children or large assets are involved. This process can be scary and oftentimes, get contentious. But it doesn’t always have to be! If you’re looking for help with a divorce, you should consider mediation, which may help alleviate stressors and bring both parties to an agreement. An added benefit is that mediation typically costs less than traditional litigation. Should you choose divorce mediation? Read more about what to expect during divorce mediation in order to determine if it’s the right step for you.

Step 1: Intake

The divorce mediator assigned to you will explain the process and take down both parties’ information. They will then assess the issues in dispute and determine what needs to be addressed. This initial step ensures that both parties have a clear understanding of the process and sets the foundation for productive discussions.

Step 2: Discussion

During this phase, the mediator will listen to both parties’ positions on the issue(s). These can include child custody, spousal support, child placement, or property division. The mediator will use a collaborative approach so both parties can start to work through their differences.

Step 3: Compromise

This is where mediation can really shine. The mediator will help both parties work towards a solution and find a compromise. This may mean trading offers or working together. When both parties are able to come to an agreement outside of court, the overall process is less stressful. You’ll also be making the process more cost-effective, as divorces in the United States can range from $500 to $11,000, or sometimes it can cost more, according to LegalZoom.

Step 4: Agreement

Once a compromise has been reached on the issue (or issues) presented during mediation, both of the parties will agree on a settlement. If the parties can’t come to a compromise with the assistance of the mediator, they may move to litigation as the next step in the divorce process.

While mediation isn’t for everyone, it’s often a great option when working through child custody or a divorce. If you’re unsure of the best avenue for your divorce or custody issues, call C.E.L. & Associates Inc today. We’re here to walk you through your options and help you take the next steps towards a happier future!