Many parents are unaware of the damage a divorce can cause for their children, even if the divorce is not especially hostile. Children are very sensitive to the feelings of their parents, so it is important that they are protected during this difficult time. You and your spouse must communicate directly. You must never communicate
Losing time with one’s children is the most painful part of a divorce. It is easy to lose sight of what is in the best interests of your children because you want to save as much time with them as possible. However, you will need to learn how to co-parent peacefully with your ex-spouse, and
The purpose of divorce mediation is to reach a settlement. The parties are encouraged to collaborate and create an agreement that is tailored to their specific needs. A divorce settlement may affect your life for many years, especially if you have children together. Therefore, it is important not to think only about current issues, but
Divorces are a painful experience, even for those couples that remain friends. To increase the odds of an amicable split, many couples have turned to divorce mediation to resolve their issues and settle their case. Parties often leave mediation with a stronger ability to communicate than if they -allowed their case go to trial. Mediation
Many assume that women are disadvantaged in mediation. Perhaps they will settle for less than what they want. Or maybe there is a power imbalance between her and her spouse. However, this perception is incorrect. In mediation, the parties will only settle an issue if they are content with its terms. Mediation provides both parties
During a divorce, the silent victims are the children. Even when the split is amicable, children still suffer anxiety and sadness as their lives change. In especially contested cases, the divorce may leave scars on children that linger well into adulthood and shape the way they view relationships. When custody or visitation is contested, the
What are your goals? Do you need help agreeing to the terms of your divorce and getting them finalized (pre-decree mediation), or do you need guidance for disagreements that have occurred after the divorce (post-decree mediation)? Once you understand your goals, make sure that the mediator handles these types of disputes. The mediator should have
I was asked to write this article from the perspective of a non-attorney Divorce Mediator. Divorce mediation, as with a traditional divorce, tries to achieve the same end result, a set of agreements that are equitable and can be lived with by both parties. Where they differ sometimes is that mediation is also about helping
When a couple recognizes that they cannot be together anymore but are not ready yet to give up completely on their marriage, divorce is not their only option. See the rest of the article at – http://safianmediation.com/what-are-the-options-for-a-separating-couple-contemplating-divorce/
he one thing you want to do is early in the process, you want to somewhat not involve the kids overly but not hiding that you’re dating. It’s not necessarily a healthy thing because the kids know anyway. So letting them know that mom deserves to have a life. It’s really healthy role modeling. A
